Why Upside?

I’m not better than you. I have plenty of bad days. Just ask my husband: I’m not perfectly perky and optimistic all the time. I am struggling just as much as you are.

But I’m trying.

This blog is an effort to see me through the IF journey: we may not know how or when it will happen, and more importantly, we don’t know if it will happen. There are so many ups and downs in this journey, and documenting them is therapeutic. I want to connect with other women (and men) who are struggling, no matter what their issues may be. I want this one little corner of the internet to be a haven of hope.

As my meditation and Buddhist practice has taught me:

every day may not be good, but there’s something good in every day.

May we all be able to find it.